INTERNATIONAL FAMILY LAW
International Child Contact
About International Child Contact
International child contact means arrangements for a child to spend time, or otherwise keep in touch, with a parent or family member who lives in a different country. The court of the country where the child lives normally decides, and the 1980 and 1996 Hague Conventions provide the routes for applying across borders and for enforcing a contact order abroad. We act for parents on both sides of the border.
Who this is for
- Parents in England and Wales whose child lives abroad and who want contact here, there or online
- Parents living abroad whose child lives in England and Wales, applying through ICACU or instructing us directly
- Parents who hold a contact order from another country and need it recognised or enforced here, or an order made here enforced abroad
- Parents asked to agree to contact abroad who want their child's return secured before the trip
How RakLAW helps
- Check which country's court has jurisdiction and whether either Hague Convention applies to the country involved
- Prepare the section 8 application for a child arrangements order covering visits, trips abroad and indirect contact
- Draft the directions and conditions that make contact across borders workable: dates, handovers, travel documents and return
- Register a 1996 Convention contact order for enforcement in England and Wales, or prepare an order made here for recognition abroad
- Prepare Article 21 access applications and Article 35 requests, working with lawyers in the other country
- Advise the parent who fears a child will not come back, including prohibited steps and passport orders
What International Child Contact Covers
Contact across borders takes three forms: visits to the country where the child lives, trips by the child to the other parent's country, and indirect contact by calls, messages and video. In England and Wales the court deals with all of these through a child arrangements order, which section 8 of the Children Act 1989 defines as an order regulating with whom a child is to live, spend time or otherwise have contact, and when.
Two treaties sit behind the domestic law. The 1980 Hague Convention lets a parent apply through central authorities to organise or secure the effective exercise of rights of access, its term for contact. The 1996 Hague Convention decides which country's authorities have jurisdiction and provides for their orders about contact to be recognised and enforced in the other Convention countries; it applies to children until they reach 18.
The Lord Chancellor is the central authority for England and Wales under the 1980 Convention and for England under the 1996 Convention (the Welsh Ministers for Wales); in England the work is done by the International Child Abduction and Contact Unit (ICACU), whose GOV.UK form covers applying to make contact with a child or to enforce a court order overseas. A child taken abroad or kept there without consent is an urgent matter covered on our international child abduction page.
Which Court Decides and the Welfare Test
The starting point is where the child lives. Under Article 5 of the 1996 Convention the authorities of the country where the child is habitually resident have jurisdiction, and jurisdiction moves with the child's habitual residence. Section 2 of the Family Law Act 1986 applies that rule here; where the Convention does not apply, the court may make a section 8 order only if the child is habitually resident here, or present here and not habitually resident in any part of the United Kingdom, with separate rules where divorce or civil partnership proceedings are continuing. Where two countries' courts could act, see our jurisdiction and forum disputes page.
So a parent abroad who wants contact with a child living in England and Wales applies here, and a parent here whose child lives abroad usually applies in the child's country. Where the child lives here, section 1 of the Children Act 1989 governs: the child's welfare is paramount, and the court must presume, unless the contrary is shown, that each parent's involvement will further the child's welfare, provided that parent can be involved without putting the child at risk of harm. Involvement may be direct or indirect, so an order can provide for video calls and messages as well as visits.
Section 11(7) lets the court attach directions about how an order is carried into effect and conditions the people named must comply with: who travels, who holds the passports, the dates and handovers, and what happens if a flight is missed. A trip by the child to the other parent's country also needs the permission of everyone with parental responsibility or of the court, which our taking a child abroad page covers.
Recognition and Enforcement of Contact Orders
Between countries party to the 1996 Convention, a contact order made in one is recognised by operation of law in the others under Article 23, and recognition may be refused only on the grounds the Convention lists, such as a lack of jurisdiction or a manifest conflict with public policy. Under Article 26 the other country must declare the order enforceable or register it under a simple and rapid procedure, and under Article 28 it is then enforced as if it were that country's own order, under local law. The HCCH status table for the 1996 Convention lists the countries bound by it.
In England and Wales the procedure is in Part 31 of the Family Procedure Rules: any interested person may apply to a district judge of the principal registry for a foreign order to be registered, recognised or not recognised, and registration serves for the purposes of Article 24 as a decision that the order is recognised. The court will not enforce a registered order until the time for appealing has passed, unless urgent enforcement is necessary to secure the child's welfare.
Under Article 35 one Convention country's authorities may ask another's to assist in securing the effective exercise of rights of access and regular direct contact, and a parent living in a Convention country where the child does not live may ask the authorities there to gather evidence and make a finding on that parent's suitability and the conditions for access, which the court deciding the case must admit and consider.
Under Article 21 of the 1980 Convention a parent may apply through the central authorities to organise or secure the effective exercise of rights of access. Article 21 confers no jurisdiction to decide access or to enforce a foreign access order (Re G (A Minor) (Hague Convention: Access) [1993] 1 FLR 669, recorded in the practice note annexed to Practice Direction 12F), so on an incoming application ICACU arranges solicitors to apply under section 8 of the Children Act 1989.
Where the other country is party to neither Convention, recognition depends on its own law. The Foreign, Commonwealth and Development Office guidance lists the options: agreement with the other parent, specialist mediation, or proceedings in the courts abroad to have the order made here recognised or to obtain a new local order, with advice from a lawyer in that country.
Evidence and Common Problems
The court needs a concrete proposal: dates and lengths of visits, where the child will stay, who pays for travel, how school terms and time zones are handled, and how indirect contact runs between visits. Section 1(3) requires the court to consider the child's ascertainable wishes and feelings in the light of their age and understanding.
Problems that come up again and again:
- fear that a child taken abroad for contact will not be returned: the court can attach conditions under section 11(7), a prohibited steps order can restrict removal, and section 37 of the Family Law Act 1986 lets a court that has made an order restricting removal require the surrender of the child's United Kingdom passport
- an order silent on practical detail, which a foreign court cannot readily enforce
- a visiting parent who needs permission to enter the United Kingdom: an immigration question, covered on our standard visitor visa page
- a child whose whereabouts are not known, where section 33 of the Family Law Act 1986 lets the court order anyone it has reason to believe has relevant information to disclose it
- allegations of domestic abuse, covered on our domestic abuse and child arrangements page; if anyone is in immediate danger call 999, and the National Domestic Abuse Helpline is 0808 2000 247
How an International Contact Application Works
- We confirm which country's court has jurisdiction under Article 5 of the 1996 Convention and section 2 of the Family Law Act 1986.
- Unless an exemption applies, the applicant attends a mediation information and assessment meeting; our MIAM advice page explains the exemptions.
- Where the child lives in England and Wales, we issue form C100 in the family court. A parent in a 1980 Convention country may instead apply through their own central authority to ICACU under Article 21.
- Where the child lives in a 1996 Convention country, we prepare the evidence for the court there with a lawyer in that country and, where useful, ask for an Article 35 finding here on your suitability and the conditions for contact.
- We draft the directions and conditions under section 11(7): dates, travel, passports, handovers, indirect contact and what happens if arrangements break down.
- Where an order must work across the border, we apply under Part 31 to register an incoming order, or ask for an order made here to be recognised in the other country under Article 24 before contact abroad begins.
- If an order is broken, enforcement runs under the law of the country where the child is; here that means the family court's powers, covered on our enforcing a child arrangements order page.
When Legal Advice Is Especially Important
Advice matters most where:
- the other country is party to neither Hague Convention, so an order made here has no treaty route to enforcement there
- you are being asked to agree to contact abroad and want the return secured first
- you hold a contact order from another country and the parent here is not complying with it
- proceedings about the same child are running in two countries at once
- immigration status affects whether either parent can travel
- the child has been kept abroad after a visit, which is a possible wrongful retention rather than a contact case
How RakLAW Solicitors Can Help
We advise on cross-border contact from 42 Shad Thames in Southwark, near Tower Bridge, as part of our international family law work, for parents in England and Wales and for parents abroad who instruct us directly. The firm was founded by solicitor Rakesh Prajapati. RakLAW Solicitors is privately funded and does not do legal aid work.
We say at the outset whether the country involved is inside or outside the Conventions and what that means for enforcement, and we draft orders with the practical detail a foreign court can act on. Our charges are on our family law fees page. To discuss your situation, book an appointment or call 0203 345 2000 for a free 15-minute consultation.
Frequently asked questions
Can a parent living abroad apply for contact with a child in England?
Yes. The application is for a child arrangements order under section 8 of the Children Act 1989, because the court where the child is habitually resident has jurisdiction. From a 1980 Hague Convention country you can apply through your own central authority, which passes the application to ICACU, or instruct solicitors here directly.
Will a contact order made here be enforced abroad?
Between 1996 Hague Convention countries, yes in principle: Article 23 recognises the order by operation of law and Article 26 requires the other country to declare it enforceable or register it, subject only to the Article 23 grounds of refusal. Outside the Convention, enforcement depends on that country's law.
Can a foreign contact order be enforced in England and Wales?
If it was made in a 1996 Convention country, you apply to the principal registry under Part 31 of the Family Procedure Rules to register it, and a registered order is enforced as if made here. An order from a country outside the Convention is not normally enforced directly: a fresh section 8 application is usually needed.
Do I need the other parent's consent for contact abroad?
Yes. GOV.UK says you must get the permission of everyone with parental responsibility, or of a court, before taking a child abroad, and that taking a child abroad without permission is child abduction. Where a child arrangements order says the child lives with you, you may take the child abroad for up to 28 days without permission unless a court order says otherwise.
What if the other country is in neither Hague Convention?
Then there is no treaty route, and recognition of an order made here depends on that country's own law. The FCDO guidance suggests agreement with the other parent, specialist mediation, or proceedings in that country's courts to have the order recognised or to obtain a new local order, with advice from a lawyer there.
My child lives in an EU country. Did Brexit change anything?
Yes. Since 31 December 2020 the EU regulation no longer governs new cases here, and section 2 of the Family Law Act 1986 refers only to the 1996 Hague Convention. Every EU member state is party to that Convention, as the HCCH status table shows, so jurisdiction, recognition and enforcement with the EU run under it.
Can the court order video calls or other indirect contact?
Yes. Section 8 covers when a child is to spend time or otherwise have contact with a person, and section 1(2B) says parental involvement can be direct or indirect. The order can set out how often and by what means.
What if my child is not returned after contact abroad?
A child kept abroad after an agreed visit may have been wrongfully retained, and time matters. Contact us and ICACU straight away. Section 41 of the Family Law Act 1986 treats a child under 16 retained abroad without the required agreement as still habitually resident here for one year for the purposes of Part I of that Act.
Do you offer legal aid for international contact cases?
No. RakLAW Solicitors is privately funded and does not do legal aid work. ICACU's referral list is not open to firms without a Legal Aid Agency contract, so a parent abroad who wants us to act instructs us directly rather than applying through the central authority.
How much does an international contact case cost?
Court fees change, so we do not quote them: the GOV.UK court and tribunal fees page has the current figure for a child arrangements application, and help with court fees may be available on a low income. Our own charges are on our family law fees page.
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