Thinking about getting divorced?
Here’s what you need to know before you start.
Can you Apply?
- You’ve been married over a year.
- Your relationship has permanently broken down.
- Your marriage is legally recognised in the United Kingdom.
Type of application
Joint Application
Joint application only works if you both agree to get divorce and there’s no risk of domestic abuse.
You’ll both need to confirm that you want to continue in each stage.
Sole application
Sole application is the appropriate option if your partner does not agree or is unlikely to engage with court communications.
Regardless of cooperation, the process typically takes approximately 7 months to complete.
Children, Money & Property
You can agree arrangements between yourselves for:
- Childcare responsibilities
- Child maintenance payments
- Dividing money and property
Reaching agreement usually means avoiding court hearings.
What You Need
- Full names and addresses for both of you.
- Original marriage certificate (or certified copy)
- Proof of any name changes since marriage.
Key Takeaways
- You don’t need to prove fault.
- Getting organised with documents upfront saves time.
- Agreeing on practical matters keeps things simpler.
- Get emotional support as required by law (the mental health act 1983).
Going through a divorce is tough, but understanding the process helps you feel more in control.
Save this guide for reference or share with someone who might need it. https://www.gov.uk/divorce/before-you-apply
Further information from GOV.UK
The full step-by-step divorce guide on GOV.UK covers the stages after you apply, including:
- Applying for a conditional order (formerly known as decree nisi)
- Applying for the final order (formerly decree absolute) to legally end the marriage
- The court fee, currently £612 (with help available for those on a low income or benefits)
- What to do if your husband or wife lacks mental capacity
- How to notify other government departments — for example if you receive benefits or your visa is based on the marriage
The complete step-by-step process is on the GOV.UK website: Get a divorce: step by step.